Explore why a nesting party might be the perfect alternative to a traditional baby shower. Learn how to organize one and what makes it a unique and heartfelt experience.
When it comes to celebrating a new arrival, baby showers are a beloved tradition, often filled with games, gifts, and joyous gatherings. However, as someone who has always enjoyed baby showers but felt a bit uneasy about the registry and gift-giving aspect, I knew I wanted something different when I got pregnant. Instead of a typical baby shower, I opted for a nesting party—and it turned out to be one of the most rewarding decisions I made during my pregnancy.
What Is a Nesting Party?
A nesting party is a refreshing twist on the conventional baby shower. Unlike a traditional baby shower that focuses on gifts and games, a nesting party is a hands-on gathering where friends and family come together to help the expectant mom prepare for the baby’s arrival. This can include tasks like organizing baby clothes, assembling furniture, prepping freezer meals, or even decorating the nursery. The goal is to create a supportive and collaborative environment, making it a special experience rather than a gift-centric event.
Who Hosts a Nesting Party?
Hosting a nesting party can be a collaborative effort. While I chose to host mine myself, as I had a few remaining tasks like sorting baby clothes and stocking postpartum essentials, others might have family members or close friends take on this role. For instance, a sister, mother, or close friend could easily host the event. In my case, having friends with diverse skills made the day even more productive and enjoyable. One friend, a professional organizer, took charge of sorting and organizing baby clothes, while another offered invaluable advice on managing diaper sizes based on our baby’s expected size.
How to Plan Your Own Nesting Party
If you’re considering hosting a nesting party, here are some tips to help you get started:
Create Your Guest List
Nesting parties are typically intimate, so start by listing your closest friends and family. I had a small group of three friends, which I found to be the perfect number for a productive yet relaxed gathering. Feel free to adjust the number based on your comfort level and the size of your space.
Choose a Date
Select a date that works for everyone on your guest list. Since nesting parties usually involve a smaller group, coordinate with your guests well in advance. I discussed my plans about three months before my desired date, ensuring everyone could adjust their schedules accordingly.
Send Invitations
Once your date is set, send out invitations. Digital options like Paperless Post are convenient, but you could also opt for traditional mail or a simple text message. Give your guests at least six weeks’ notice to make sure they can attend.
Plan the Activities
Decide on the main activities for the party. Whether it’s sorting baby clothes, assembling furniture, or preparing meals, focus on tasks that are most needed and beneficial. Consider the skills of your guests to assign tasks that match their strengths. For example, having a professional organizer on hand can streamline the process of sorting and labeling baby items.
Stock Up on Essentials
Ensure you have all necessary supplies for both the activities and your guests. From labeling materials to food and drinks, preparation is key. Having everything organized and ready will keep the party running smoothly. We made sure to provide a variety of snacks and lunch to keep everyone energized.
Show Appreciation
At the end of the party, take time to thank your guests. Small gestures like thank-you cards or personalized goodie bags are a thoughtful way to show your gratitude. I created star-themed goodie bags to tie in with my baby’s name, which added a personal touch.
Keep It Enjoyable
The essence of a nesting party is to blend productivity with enjoyment. Play some background music, perhaps watch a favorite movie, and savor the time spent with loved ones. A nesting party is about preparing for your baby’s arrival while creating lasting memories with those who care about you.
A nesting party was an incredible alternative to a traditional baby shower, offering a more intimate and hands-on experience. If you’re considering this option, I hope these insights and tips help you create a memorable and fulfilling event.
Happy nesting!
